"Everything"

Last week I gave a retreat for high school sophomores.  It was a very new experience for me!  As I was preparing, a friend of mine recommended a short video that she thought the teens would find meaningful.  She herself had been touched by it as an adult.  I was more than open to suggestions, so I watched the video. 

I loved it.  The sophomores loved it.  And I think you will, too. 

As I told the high school students, you may not have the same problems as the girl in the video, but you will recognize her struggle.  You will understand her searching and straying, the forces at work in her life, and the power of a savior who never leaves our side.  

I recommend that you watch when you have 5 minutes of quiet time by yourself. 

In Every Life

“I have a dogmatic certainty: God is in every person’s life. God is in everyone’s life. Even if the life of a person has been a disaster, even if it is destroyed by vices, drugs or anything else—God is in this person’s life. You can, you must try to seek God in every human life.”

 -- Pope Francis

Romance

I recently heard a speaker quote Oswald Chambers: 

“Get into the habit of saying, ‘Speak, Lord,’ and life will become a romance.”

I was struck by the idea, and I tried to put it into practice.  Changing a diaper, sitting in traffic, watching the news, working – I said, “Speak, Lord.”  It was a simple thing to do, a simple way to invite God in, to allow him to speak to me when otherwise I would have just been listening to myself.  I became more aware of his presence.

But what did Oswald Chambers mean by “romance”? 

When we love someone – especially if we are in love with them – we want to be with them.  We want to share everything with them.  This is a natural and relatable human experience.  As it turns out, we are with God all the time, but we rarely call out to him.  We rarely seek the God who is hiding in plain sight in our world, in our day, in each moment.  We are with the one we love, but we don’t realize it.  We aren’t listening for the quiet voice of the beloved.

Jesus described this pervasive divine presence in his own way:  “The Kingdom of God is among you” (Lk. 17:21).  Indeed, the presence, the reign, the kingdom of God grows, like a mustard seed, from something very small into a wonderful, shady bush where birds can land and rest (Lk. 13:18-19).  It grows this way in our lives, too – as we become more aware of how close he is, how much he loves us, how much there is to share.  The harsh world outside can feel more like a shady bush if we are living in it with the one we love. 

Sounds romantic, doesn’t it?  Speak, Lord!  

Transfigure Me, Lord

In preparation for an upcoming talk on aging as a time of spiritual grace, I’ve been thinking a lot about the changes we undergo as we age.  I wrote this litany for the program, and I wanted to share it here. 

Whether we are growing old or just growing older, the transitions and challenges we face can be painful.  But as in all kinds of change, in nature and in life, through pain and transition, we can become something new.  In our surrenders, we find the new life we have longed for. 

Like Christ on the mountain, we are transfigured as we age.  We are changed from within and without.  Outwardly we age; inwardly we can be illuminated.  Like the Transfigured Christ, we can shine like the sun!

So pray with me:  “Transfigure me, Lord!”  Click on the file below to view or print the litany.

Transfigure Me, Lord:  An Aging Prayer.pdf

Upcoming Event: The Spiritual Adventure of Our Later Years

I'm excited about an upcoming event I will be doing with Ruth Mulhern, R.N., a retired hospice nurse who is full of life, wit and wisdom.  Ruth and I will be presenting together on various aspects of aging.  Ruth will be giving some "nuts and bolts," then I will be talking about the spiritual potential we have as we age.  We want to present a positive but realistic vision of how the aging process, though challenging, can bring us closer to God and teach us the beautiful art of surrender.

The morning will include prayer, presentations, time for quiet reflection, and a bit of discussion.

Below you will find the details of the event as well as registration information.  Feel free to contact me with any questions.  I would love to see you there!

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Morning of Reflection:  "The Spiritual Adventure of Our Later Years"

Have you ever thought of your later years as the greatest spiritual time in your life?  While aging naturally presents us with challenges, there are ways to open our minds and hearts to new possibilities.  Join us for an Evening of Reflection as we consider the graces available to us in our later years.  We will also reflect on our “spiritual legacies” – the spiritual blessings we want to leave behind for future generations. 

Caritas Christi Retreat Center, Hamden, CT

Thurs., Oct. 8, 2015, 10 a.m.-12 p.m.

To register, call Sr. Jeanne Marie at the Caritas Christi Center:  203-281-2569.